My country was destroyed

Feb 10, 2017

By Tima Kurdi | MEDIUM.COM

The story below is from Tima Kurdi, whose sister-in-law and two nephews drowned en route to Greece on their way to seek refuge from the Syrian war.

I am the aunt of Alan Kurdi, the Syrian boy who tragically drowned September 2, 2015. The devastating image of my 2-year old nephew’s lifeless body, lying face-down on the beach in Turkey, was all over the news across the world.

Two weeks ago, I got home from work and my husband showed me a video of Tulsi Gabbard talking about her visit to my home country of Syria. The things she was saying about the United States policy of regime change and how the West and the Gulf countries are funding the rebel groups who wind up with the terrorists are true. I was shocked because it’s something no other U.S. politician has the courage to say.

Regime change policy has destroyed my country and forced my people to flee. Tulsi’s message was exactly what I have been trying to say for years, but no one wants to listen.

I live in Canada now, but I was born and raised in Damascus, Syria. Growing up, our country was peaceful, beautiful and safe. Our neighbors were Christian, Muslim, Sunni, Shia; all kinds of religion and color. We all lived together and respected each other. Syria is a secular country. In 2011, the war started in Syria. Most of my family was still in Damascus. I was always in close contact with them and talked to them on the phone on a daily basis.

For a year, I heard many tragic stories of people, friends, and neighbors who I grew up with having died in this war. Ultimately, my family had to flee to Turkey. I did what everyone would do for their own family to help, I sent them money and I listened to their struggles to survive as refugees in Turkey.

In 2014, I went to Turkey to visit my family and tried to help them. What I saw and experienced is not what we all saw in the news or we heard in the radio. It was worse than I could ever have imagined. I saw people in the streets without homes, without hope. Children were hungry, begging for a piece of bread. I heard many heartbreaking stories from other refugees who were suffering so much and many who had lost loved ones in the war. After I returned to Canada, I decided I wanted to bring my family here as refugees, but I couldn’t get them approved to come in. Eventually, my brother Abdullah and his wife Rehana, like thousands of Syrians, decided they had to take the risk and trust a smuggler they thought would bring them to freedom, safety, and hope.

In September 2, 2015, I heard the tragic news that my sister-in-law Rehana and her two sons drowned crossing from Turkey to Greece. The image of my two year old nephew Alan Kurdi lying face down on a Turkish beach was all over the media across the world. It was the wake up call to the world. Enough suffering. Enough killing. And most importantly, it was my wake up call.

Since that time, I decided to speak up on behalf of all the Syrian refugees and be their voice, to call upon other countries to open their hearts and doors to my people, and also, to end the regime change war that’s causing more people to flee. I do not support one side or the other in the Syrian conflict. But I’m very frustrated by the Western media’s one-sided coverage of this war. The U.S., the West, and the Gulf countries are funding rebels associated with al-Qaeda and ISIS, giving them weapons to empower them to keep fighting and destroy and divide Syria. I know first-hand. I’ve been trying to tell the world about what is happening in Syria, but the media doesn’t want people to hear the truth.

That’s why I got in touch with Tulsi to tell her that I support her message to stop arming terrorists, to stop supporting regime change. Like me, many Syrians are encouraged that Tulsi met with President Bashar Assad in Syria. Tulsi recognizes that we need to talk to him because a political solution is the only way to restore peace in Syria.

If the West keeps funding the rebels, we will see more people flee, more bloodshed, and more suffering. My people have suffered for at least six years.This is not about supporting Bashar. This is about ending the war in Syria.

We can’t continue like this, supporting regime change. We have seen it before in Iraq, in Libya, and look what happened to them. They feel there is no end at sight.

My country is being destroyed, my people are displaced and nobody wants them. Regime change war is going to kill more people and cause more people to flee. That’s all I can say.

Thank you Tulsi, and thank you everyone for your action and for reading my message. Please help support those who have been forced to flee their homes and please understand what this regime change policy is doing to the people in my country.

Thank you,
Tima Kurdi


  1. doug lowe

    Tima, the horrors brought upon you & your family both sicken & anger me. The US government is currently filled with mentally ill monsters, for whom no abomination is enough to satisfy their lust for money & power. I respect the courage you show for channelling your grief into a powerful stand for justice.

    I and so many other Tulsi supporters are fighting as hard as we can to bring her into office. She not only has the ability to end the horrors of these wars but also to build a movement of peace that will potentially transform the entire globe from living amongst a constant threat of life & limb to one of peaceful cooperation and love.

    Thank you for taking leadership in this cause. You are an incredible inspiration.

  2. marte1618

    There are many people in this country like Tulsi; we support her and her mission to end western support of regime change. We understand and do our very best to fight the heinous administration’s policies regarding not only Syria, but Iraq, Afghanistan, and all other countries where we (the multitude of politicians and their administrations) have peddled, trying to impose their own will over that of the native peoples.
    I support refugees, believing the “we broke it, we bought it,” philosophy. I have personally sponsored two such individuals, a mother and her daughter. I try to do more, as I know many of my fellow citizens do as well.
    I am more sorry than words can express at your family’s personal loss. It is heartbreaking to see the carnage wrought by misguided and the hubris that insists on continuing these deadly policies.
    We STAND resolutely with Tulsi, and will continue to organise and fight these tyrannical policies and so-called leaders.

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Last night during my tele townhall, Tima Kurdi — the aunt of the boy whose lifeless body was lying face down on a beach in Turkey — joined us for the call. Tima opened up her heart to all of us, saying how this moment was her wakeup call to be a voice for refugees and work to end the regime change war that is creating the reason for them to leave. Because of people like Tima, I have a greater resolve to end our illegal counterproductive war to overthrow the Syrian government, and to pass the important legislation, the Stop Arming Terrorists Act. Every single day that we continue to provide this support directly and indirectly to armed militants who are working or partnered with terrorists groups like al-Qaeda, more people are suffering and more lives are lost like Tima’s nephew. Listen to her powerful message.